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12月31日

last day for 2008

2008的最后一天,本以为可以轻松度过,结果还是在办公室赶报告。幸好,走的时候依旧有人相伴,并不觉得孤单寂寞,或许这就叫团队。
 
回想2008,很平淡、很简单、却很充实,但最让我觉得可贵的是在异乡又认识了另一帮朋友,感谢他们的支持和鼓励,也很感谢老朋友的牵挂和问候。
 
2009的愿望很简单,希望关心我的和我关心的人都健健康康、快快乐乐!
4月28日

完美的日子

无论于中国时间还是英国时间,这篇BLOG都应在昨天写,但实在太忙,唯有作一个补记。
 
记得小时候(大概8、9岁那样子),妈妈为我举办了一个生日PARTY,收到了许多礼物,很是高兴。3天以后,老爸却大发雷霆,斥责道:“这么小就养成陋习,今天是我生日,就吃方便面,这就是我过生日的方式。”自此以后,生日PARTY就再没在我人生出现过,同时也习惯了静静地过生日。
 
后来回想,难怪以前老爸经常忘记我的生日,也是有原因的,他根本就不看重这些节日,而不是不关心我(现在有很大的进步,我生日未到就发了一个花的网址给我,满足了)。
 
中午拿过上学期的考试成绩单,看了一眼,觉得不比上学期差,算完成任务,也算是送给自己的一份生日礼物。本以为又要像上年那样自娱自乐(除了打算自制一个小蛋糕以示鼓励之外),却意外地收到一位帅哥的电话说要请我吃饭,真是荣幸之极。和帅哥平时交谈不多,但总觉得他人很好,很多东西都说得头头是道,是以理服人的说道者,特别佩服文学和历史都精通的人。都说山东人好充大头鬼,但帅哥绝对是例外,自己懂得很多、经历很多却依旧谦虚之至,超赞这样的人~~~
 
送走帅哥,没想到更大的惊喜还在后头。朋友老远带着自制蛋糕、金牛座的诞生之花-紫罗兰(据闻)还有漂亮的生日礼物送到我的跟前。第一眼看到那蛋糕,真不敢相信是自制的,朋友还说是第一次,真是汗颜......再尝一口,简直美味之极,什么时候我才能达到那水平?还亏我每周做一个蛋糕“保持水平”,看来这艺术是需要天赋的。朋友在这的时间不长,就一个下午,而我还让他在门外白白等了2小时,甚是抱歉。
 
期间,收到很多亲人朋友的祝福,还收到亲爱的表姐百忙中抽出时间给我写的EMAIL,极度感动(P.S. 楠楠千万别自责,只要以后有饭局叫上我就行^_^)
 
今年的生日,依然没有亲人在旁,依然孤身在外,但却精彩纷呈。国外的第一个生日,为我平淡的人生画上了绚丽的一笔。
 
24岁,本命年,希望一切顺利,好运常驻~~~~~~~~
 
P.S.今天还收到了2则好消息:
同学转述一位高中同学说要在10.1结婚,真是没想到啊(因为这事于我可是多么遥不可及)
我审计的启蒙老师说要易主了,又是前途无可限量的工作,羡慕着呢
 
ANYWAY,同喜、同贺

 
8月13日

祖父的大寿

古语云:“人生七十古来稀”,人能活到70岁确实是一种福气。
 
今天是祖父的82岁生日(远远超过70岁),也许用“大寿”来形容更为合适。ANYWAY, 衷心祝愿祖父身体健康、长命百岁。祖父说,他今年特别高兴,虽没详细说明,但那份喜悦已溢于言表。我懂得其中的原因。YAN表姐、阿猫、CC和我齐齐毕业。再加上YAN表姐即将学成归国,阿猫马上要开展博士生涯的学习,CC找到满意的工作,我又快要赴英求学。另外,小耿和小平将在今年结束爱情长跑、踏入婚礼的殿堂。也许,人到了一定年纪,要经历的都经历过了,要看的也领略过了,已经别无所求,自自然然就会把所有的牵挂都寄托在儿孙身上。当看到儿孙各人“生生性性”,学/事业有成,老人所谓的老怀安慰油然而生。
 
由于各人平时都有自己要忙的事情,我们家一年中能聚首一堂的机会屈指可数,春节、中秋、还有就是元老的大寿。也只有在这些特别的日子,我才有机会见见所有的家人并和同辈的表兄、表姐、表妹打打“升级”、摸摸麻将、聊聊八卦。今年聚会的气氛特别和谐,可能是因为大家都不再是毛头小孩,大家都生活在大城市,大家都是毕业生,以前那种奇怪的“隔阂感”消失得无影无踪,我甚至有种回到多年前我们五人在华师度过的一段日子的感觉,特别温馨、特别愉快、特别惬意~~~
 
PS:今年终于在祖父的生日宴上盛上,算是加入一点西方文化色彩,也算是我们作为孙儿的一点心意,可惜忘了拍照,不然就可让YAN表姐看看当时的实况了
7月5日

感谢所有人

今天早上,刚拿到visa,心中无比快乐~~
 
在此,再一次感谢曾经帮助过我的所有亲戚和朋友:
 
感谢FOX反复不断而又不厌其烦地为我修改PS和RL
 
感谢YAN表姐的及时回答和英明指导
 
感谢阿猫的日常鼓励
 
感谢宇哥哥的提醒和分析
 
感谢老爸、爷爷、姑妈们(尤其是YAN表姐和阿猫的妈妈)的无限量支持
 
感谢亦师亦友的TOTORO
 
感谢室友惠贞、婉梅、丽萍的包容和体贴
 
感谢阿范、思祺、钟文杰的关心
 
感谢碧珊、小敏的唠叨和重复
 
感谢阿BEN的理解
 
感谢豆腐的相伴
 
感谢曾锦文的念旧
 
感谢莉莉的寒暄
 
感谢LYNN的短期归国及真挚问候
 
感谢同舟共济的子鹏、一鸣、文婷、宗明
 
感谢风雨兼程的旺才、劲雄、子聪、芳华
 
感谢愿作为我推荐人的董丽和傅波老师
 
感谢学校和学院教务处曾给与我方便的所有工作人员
 
感谢身在天国的嬷嬷和妈妈的守护
 
太多、太多要感谢的人,数不胜数
 
Anyway, 感谢所有人~~
5月23日

偶快要毕业了~~

几天前已拍过毕业照,但因要准备今天的论文答辩,又因照片没收集完毕,所以,一直拖到今天才上来update space

今天的答辩极具戏剧性,我在毫无准备的情况下很不幸地被老师要求进行口辩,但由于时间关系,最后又改成笔辩。Anyway,蛮幸运的~~

大学阶段最后的事情似乎就剩下拿毕业证书和学位证书了,不知为何,突然有点空虚的感觉......

回顾过去的四年,学到了很多东西,也混了不少日子。伤心过很多回,但更多的是欢乐~~

很幸运有几位温柔体贴的室友,从各方面关心我这个自以为可以独立生活但又永远长不大的“大细路”

很高兴认识了几位有远大志向的朋友,尽管大家所走的道路不尽相同,但相互间的互励互勉总是推动我前进的动力

毕业将至,所有的一切都将变成瑰丽的回忆,那一张张青春、可爱的脸,那一段段难忘的经历,永志不忘......

不过有时也想,生命中的许多的东西都不可能永远记住,我们总是在进行选择性遗忘

忘记痛苦的经历,保留美丽的回忆,也许这就是某首歌里提到的忘了,忘不了......

 

 

 

5月13日

A special Birthday Wish to A Special Friend~~

Since the day we became friends, I've always felt a wonderful warmth, understanding, care
 
and avove all, a happy feeling at the thought,
 
that I have found someone to lean on......
 
And at times, when I  ponder upon the joys that life has brought my way,
 
your friendship seems to be the most significant and the most wonderful thing,
 
that has ever happened to me
 
And on your birthday, I just want to say,
 
I am lucky, you came my way
 
Happy Birthday to a special friend~~
4月27日

my birthday

不知不觉,已经到了23岁生日(据闻这已经是晚婚年龄),但愿一切的学生优惠仍可保留,景点门票5折,电影票半价......
 
今年收到的祝福特别多,还有几位好友坚持送礼,在此感谢各位的盛意,愿大家给予我的祝愿都能一一实现......
 
再次表示万分感激,为此,我将呈献本人刚从云南归来的照片特辑及游记介绍,希望各位喜欢
12月24日

X'mas Day

今年的圣诞,终于可以休息一下了。以前的圣诞总是用来备考,因而,很多时会忘记它的存在。记得读初中时,我总会在圣诞前夕买一大堆贺卡来分发给好友,希望借此机会给予他们一年一度的祝福。到了高中,随着网络的普及和环保意识的增强,我改用了ECARD来传递问候。到了大学,越来越多人选择SMS,我也成为其中一分子。到了今年,好像又出现了一个新趋势,就是在自己的space弄一张圣诞卡或者写一篇blog来给予祝福。
 
其实圣诞并非中国的传统节日,企业、学校也没有例假,但中国的青年男女却十分重视这个节日。外国文化对中国青年的荼毒看来真的不轻。虽然大学的生活相对自由,但印象比较深刻的还是中学时代的圣诞节。可能是因为中学那帮朋友都是好玩之徒,一大班臭味相投的人混在一起特别容易擦出火花,大家总会弄出各种各样的节目来娱乐大众。有时候真的很怀念中学生活,虽然被腐朽的教育体制折磨得痛苦不堪,但有好友相伴再难熬的日子也能度过。大学的朋友,虽然都不乏知心好友,但可能因为大家来自不同地区,地域文化的差异总会使彼此在某些小问题上不能统一意见。但上大学之后就再没有和以前的好友聚在一起度过重要的节日了。本来今年有机会和从枫叶之国归来的Licence一起度过平安夜,但因和小M的考试相冲,我们相聚的计划不得不推迟,又是一个TIMING的问题。
 
如果要问我这个圣诞有什么特别节目,我只能回答看了一天的电影。虽说独乐乐不如众乐乐,但当亲朋戚友都没法与自己相聚时就应该寻找一条自我取乐之道。只有这样,自己才不会感到孤独
 
Merry X'mas and Happy New Year~~~
11月25日

The origin of thanksgiving

FW: The History of Thanksgiving in the USA 
 
The Thanksgiving holiday celebrated each November in the United States is known worldwide as an American custom. And Thanksgiving and gratitude have marked important milestones in American life for hundreds of years.

    The first Americans observed rituals and ceremonies to express gratitude to a higher power for life itself. A Seneca Indian ritual, for example, states, "Our Creator ... Shall continue to dwell above the sky, and this is where those on the earth will end their thanksgiving." Another quotation attributed to American Indians before Columbus is, "The plant has its nourishment from the earth and its limbs go up this way, in praise of its Maker ... like the limbs of a tree."

    The Pilgrims' First Harvest Feast

    The Pilgrims who sailed to this country aboard the Mayflower were originally members of the English Separatist Church (a Puritan sect). They had earlier fled their home in England and sailed to Holland (The Netherlands) to escape religious persecution. There, they enjoyed more religious tolerance, but they eventually became disenchanted with the Dutch way of life, thinking it ungodly. Seeking a better life, the Separatists negotiated with a London stock company to finance a pilgrimage to America. Most of those making the trip aboard the Mayflower were non-Separatists, but were hired to protect the company's interests. Only about one-third of the original colonists were Separatists.

    The Pilgrims set ground at Plymouth Rock on December 11, 1620. Their first winter was devastating. At the beginning of the following fall, they had lost 46 of the original 102 who sailed on the Mayflower. But the harvest of 1621 was a bountiful one. And the remaining colonists decided to celebrate with a feast -- including 91 Indians who had helped the Pilgrims survive their first year. The Pilgrims did have a feast in 1621 near Plymouth, Massachusetts, after their first harvest. This is the feast people often refer to as "The First Thanksgiving." This feast was never repeated, so it can't be called the start of a tradition, nor did the colonists or Pilgrims call it a Thanksgiving Feast. In fact, to these devoutly religious people, a day of thanksgiving was a day of prayer and fasting.

    Nevertheless, the 1621 feast has become a model for the Thanksgiving celebration in the United States. More than likely, this first harvest feast was eaten outside, based on the fact that the colonists didn't have a building large enough to accommodate all the people who came. Native Americans definitely were among the invited guests, and it's possible, even probable, that turkey, roasted but not stuffed, and pumpkin in some form found their way to the table. The feast went on for three days, included 90 "Indians," as Native Americans were called then, and had plentiful food. In addition to the venison provided by the Native Americans, there was enough wild fowl to supply the village for a week. The fowl included ducks, geese, turkeys and even swans.

    New World With Many Cultural Influences

    In addition to thanksgiving traditions brought to North America by settlers from many parts of the world, some authorities link the American thanksgiving with the ancient Jewish observance of Sukkot in the fall, which expresses thanks to God for the bounty of the earth.

    Indeed, all the major world religions—including Hinduism, Buddhism, Judaism, Christianity and Islam—have rituals, observances and liturgies that express thanks and gratitude to a higher power for the gift of life and its wonders. Regardless of the origin of the American Thanksgiving holiday, the following brief timeline shows its development.

 

Timeline of American Thanksgiving Holiday

    In 1541, during Coronado's expedition a Eucharistic thanksgiving, with the friendly Teya Indians present, occurred in Palo Duro Canyon in West Texas.

    Pilgrims and Native Americans enjoyed a harvest feast in Plymouth, Massachusetts in 1621. This feast may have become the model for today's American celebration.

    Settlers and colonists from many continents brought customs of days of prayer and thanksgiving, especially in New England, where the first Thanksgiving of the Massachusetts Bay Colony was observed on July 8, 1630.

    The first Thanksgiving of the new United States of America occurred in 1777 when General George Washington and his army, as instructed by the Continental Congress, stopped in bitter weather in the open fields on their way to Valley Forge to mark the occasion.

    Washington's first proclamation after his inauguration as the nation's first president in 1789 declared November 26, 1789, as a national day of "thanksgiving and prayer." And the annual presidential thanksgiving proclamations ceased for 45 years in the early 1800s.

    President Abraham Lincoln resumed the tradition in 1863.

    On November 26, 1941 President Roosevelt signed the bill establishing the fourth Thursday in November as Thanksgiving Day. Because two years out of every seven have five Thursdays in November, some states for the next 15 years celebrated on their own on the last Thursday. Since 1956, the fourth Thursday in November has been observed by every state.

    In 1976, the 200th birthday year of America, the Chapel of Thanksgiving was consecrated. President Ford referred to it as "a major national shrine," and later President George Bush noted that it is "a symbol and a home for America's most beloved tradition."

    The National Thanksgiving Commission was inaugurated at Valley Forge in 1977, where 200 years earlier General George Washington celebrated the first national Thanksgiving with his troops. Former President Ford became the Commission's honorary president, and Lady Bird Johnson, the former First Lady, became honorary vice president. Former Ambassador Armstrong is president of the commission.

    Former Ambassador to Britain and Cabinet member Anne Armstrong asked President Ronald Reagan in 1981 to place the National Day of Prayer on its original spring date, which had been neglected for nearly two centuries.

    The first Thursday in May has been the official day ever since, reviving the ancient "spring prayer and fall Thanksgiving" cycle of the Continental Congress. Congress unanimously confirmed the historic date in 1988.

    Since 1981, a National Day of Prayer breakfast has been held in Dallas each May under the auspices of the National Thanksgiving Commission and Thanks-Giving Square.

    The Wall of Presidents at Thanks-Giving Square

    The Wall of Presidents at Thanks-Giving Square honors words expressed about Thanksgiving by American presidents over the past two centuries. Set in a grove of sweet gum trees in the Meditation Garden at Thanks-Giving Square, the Wall of Presidents was dedicated in November 1991 by President George Bush. The wall features quotes from Washington, Franklin D. Roosevelt and Bush.

    In dedicating the wall President Bush declared, "The Home of American Thanksgiving is dedicated in the name of presidents past, present and future." The dove that serves as the centerpiece of the exhibit was personally designed by George Washington and patterned after Noah's Dove of Thanksgiving. Washington used the dove design in the weathervane placed on the roof of his beloved home, Mount Vernon.